when time runs out

it is really sad when a loved one leaves so suddenly and you don't get the chance to say goodbye.....

yesterday, me and my friends were just talking about the accident and death of british actress Natasha Richardson, in someway i am affected for the fact that she was a mother with young kids and a wife to actor Liam Neeson. she was just vacationing somewhere in canada when she fell and hit her head and now she's dead...the sad news is all over the news and i did my share of saying a prayer for her peace...

and today when i got to work things bacame the saddest...when i was told that the mother of my friend mami vk just died today. mami vk is the friend who just celebrated her birthday last monday and i even blogged about the happening a few days ago, i also posted a happy picture of us with her birthday cake, and now...she's in sorrow...

last night she was just telling us that she's pissed because her mother was hospitalized because of difficulty in breathing, maybe due to exhaustion. her mother is a diabetic and with complications already, but she also said that her mom is already out of the hospital, obviously something went wrong....

these things make me realize how very fragile life is....we just don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow, when is our "time"...one moment you have your loved ones with you and the next thing you realize is that their gone...you weren't able to say goodbye, you weren't able to give your last hug or to say i love you...the only thing left behind are memories....

memories are good but sometimes it can be painful...missing someone is painful specially if you no longer have the chance to see that person ever again...so while you can love them more...while you have them make them feel they are really loved...